Showing love doesn’t have to consist of elaborate gifts and huge displays of romance, consisting of smaller gestures and ongoing actions which make your partner feel appreciated. Everyone has a different love language so get to know what theirs is and learn how to communicate love to them. Whether words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, or physical touch get them going, understanding their preferences will allow you to make those all-important gestures and help you both align better. To help you out, here are some ways that you can show your love to your husband every single day:
Show Some Intimacy
As much as life can get in the way of our physical touch, many men thrive on physical connection so a gentle touch can go a long way. Intimacy doesn’t just mean having sex, it can be as simple as rubbing his neck, giving him a kiss as you walk by or even just laying a hand on him as you watch TV. If you are feeling fruity, make an effort to initiate sex and show him that you want him by making a move, even introducing sex toys such as vibrators, cock rings or a chastity belt if you want to add some extra spice.
Just Tell Him
Although this may sound like a given, many of us do not express our love enough to our partners. A lot of people struggle with actually expressing their feelings to their spouse so making an effort to tell your husband that you love him and giving them regular words of affirmation can go a long way. Get into the habit of telling him every day, building up that bond and making time every day to tell each other how much you care for them.
Do His Favourite Things
Take time to enter his world by finding an interest that he shares and arranging a time for you both to get stuck in. Whether he likes to go hiking, wants to try a new sport for the first time, or even has a place in mind to explore, surprise him by planning an exciting date for you both to enjoy. You may even find yourself a new hobby by sharing one of his, not only showing a willingness to enter his personal life but by getting you outside of your comfort zone. Once you find out what he likes and do a little research, get ready to see his face light up!
When you get married, it’s important to establish healthy boundaries that make sense for you and your marriage. If you are uncomfortable with something that they are doing or feel like you need to express your opinion on something that differs to theirs, make sure to voice this in a civil manner and open up about how you feel. Being in agreement regarding both of your boundaries shows a mutual love and respect for one another, helping you live more cooperatively.